Little steps

Where you are right now is a culmination of countless decisions you’ve made along the way. Your life is shaped by your habits, those small actions that fill your day.

Consider this: if you establish a routine of going to the gym three times a week and eating healthily, you’ll naturally have a different appearance than someone who spends their time indulging in Netflix and snacks. It’s all about the habits we cultivate, the little behavioral patterns that shape our lives.

So, if you truly desire a significant change in your life, it’s often more effective to focus on altering your routines and habits, rather than embarking on grandiose endeavors. The steps required for change are often smaller and more attainable. They demand less time, smaller investments, and require less effort than trying to make an all-encompassing transformation.

But let’s be honest, altering habits can be quite challenging. Habits tend to become ingrained, automatic behaviors that define who we are. Breaking free from them can be a daunting task.

Nevertheless, remember this: there is always a way! In this case, you have the power to program yourself, much like writing code for a computer. Research has shown that when you articulate a routine in a specific manner, the chances of following through with it greatly increase. Consider a structure like this: Every [Frequency] at [Time], I will [Activity] in [Place].

For instance, you could write: “Every day at 8 o’clock in the morning, I will spend a minute meditating in my study,” or “Three times a week, on Thursday, Saturday, and Monday, at 7 o’clock in the evening, I will work out at my local gym.”

This method works for a reason. Often, it’s not a lack of motivation that holds us back, but rather a lack of clarity. When we have to think about when and where to meditate or work out, it becomes mentally burdensome, making it easier to give up. By writing down our routines in advance, we clarify our intentions. Time, place, and activity become crystal clear. All that’s left is to execute.

Now, I would love to hear from you. What routine would you write? What tiny habit do you wish to change? Remember, even the smallest adjustments can lead to remarkable transformations. Share your thoughts and aspirations with me!